What makes you unique as a woman?

From within the womb, women’s brains are biologically different to men’s brains. High levels of oxytocin, serotonin and dopamine are secreted when we are hugged, caressed, loved, spoken to kindly, reinforced and cherished.

Masculine traits: Aggression, competition, physical activity, sex, logic, achieving. Feminine traits: Family unity, communication, building bonds of trust, expressing love, creativity, nurturing.

Our sense of self begins at childbirth, when we are more aware of our mother’s reactions. We read faces, expressions, tones of voice and body language better than males, from infancy.

Little girls look for recognition among a crowd of strangers, while little boys look for something fun to do.

When we look at a face, which has no expression, we interpret that we have done something wrong. We connect people’s facial expressions to our self-worth, whether rightly or wrongly.

When a young girl does not receive the proper amount of loving affirmation through touch, words, facial expressions, patient listening or even physical care, she becomes deprived of a basic emotional need. This leads to erratic and irrational behaviour in what would ordinarily be a calm and gentle girl.

What is a woman’s basic emotional need? To be valued and cared for – in other words, to be loved.

Women need to overcome the lies of hopelessness that says too much time has passed; that we can’t trust again after experiencing disappointment; that we don’t know how to love anymore.

Rewiring your thought process means – taking a rational look at who you have become, and what you can change from now on.

Here are some of your answers:

LEBOGANG MOABI said I’m unique because I’m Loving,kind, ever smiling person

REFENTSE KUBU said I’m unique because I am courageous, independent and determined

GOPOLANG MATJENI said I’m unique because I do what I want ,not what people want. I don’t give u easily

PRETTY LUDICK said I’m unique because I don’t think we that different just our lifestyles are different cause we all go through a lot…The only thing that makes us different is the way we choose to live and how we make decision and life with our choices

REATLEGILE MATOMELA said I’m unique because I put no Make up or fonts on my face. I’m natural and I emphasize my natural beauty..Ain’t in need of any make-up/skin products to be beautiful/make me feel beautiful and worth it

ESTHER MOALOSI said I’m unique because I like people and I don’t hate/dislike anyone…am lovable and friendly to everyone

MPHO MATOMELA said I’m unique because Few things that makes me unique from other women is my perceptions how i view life and slightly things that accounts like my experiences in life and how i react towards life, secondly it would be my intelligence because how i figure out on helping people its not the same, my social aptitude, beliefs and values differs a lot to other women, thirdly is my personality because how i speak with people or how i interacts with other people can define the character of myself which makes me unique because I’m talkative, thoughtful and bubbly. Lastly my goals makes me very unique because i like helping people that’s why i did first aid as a course to help people and to have a better career levels in future



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